The Joy of Self-Care: Buying Flowers for Yourself
For years, I never thought twice about sending flowers. Whether to others or to myself, the idea seemed foreign. My journey began in a simple yet profound act that would change my perspective on self-care. This year, instead of waiting for a valentine from my boyfriend, I took matters into my own hands and bought flowers for myself. Little did I know that this small gesture would elevate my self-esteem and bring a positive vibe to my life.
Sometimes, the act of self-love can be as simple as surrounding yourself with beauty. The idea of sending yourself flowers is more than just a unique form of self-care; it symbolizes the commitment to your own emotional well-being. Each bouquet I keep in my room and on my desk serves as a reminder to appreciate the small joys in life and to show myself the same kindness and attention I would to a cherished friend.
A Tradition of Giving
My habit of sending flowers to others also included sending a portion of them to myself. Throughout the year, I would send flowers to my daughter and daughter-in-law at Christmas and New Year’s, for their birthdays, and for just-because occasions. The absence of flowers from my own gardens prompted me to send store-bought bouquets, ensuring that I still sent myself plenty. The act of nurturing and giving, even to oneself, often carries a deep sense of satisfaction and contentment.
Embracing Joie de Vivre
Whenever I was single, I would indulge in buying flowers from Walmart, a small pleasure that brought me joy and a temporary boost in self-confidence. Even though my gift-giver was myself, the act of buying and admiring flowers was something that made me feel beautiful and cared for. Over the years, this habit has been sporadic, with intervals ranging from once a year to a dozen times, each purchase reflecting a moment of self-love and a ray of hope.
Personal Gardens and Inherited Love
Today, my love for flowers has reaches new heights as I now grow many of them in my backyard. Roses, lilies, violets, red and white salvia, lavender, ageratum, day lilies, agapanthus, and a few others grace my home. This passion for cultivating and enjoying flowers was passed down through generations, with my mother and her mother instilling within me a deep appreciation for the natural beauty around us. Whenever we bring home a fresh bouquet, it brings a sense of joy that lasts beyond the physical walls of our home.
Buying flowers for oneself may seem like a small thing, but it is a powerful act of self-love. It shows that in the pursuit of happiness, sometimes the best gifts come from within. Whether you're sending a bouquet to someone else or to yourself, the symbolism of these beautiful flowers is a reminder to appreciate the beauty and joy in life.