Interacting with Your Cat: How Often Should You Talk to Them?
I am constantly confused by the question of how often one should interact with their pet, especially a cat. I love my cats and I interact with them multiple times a day. I have four cats, each of whom has their own toys and a cat condo to explore. We play together, love one another, and take care of each other. If I don't get out of bed at 4:00 AM, they're okay with that. They lie on my face and follow me around. My oldest cat, who is three years old in August, was about a year old when I adopted her. She is part of the family.
Consistent Interactions
I tell my cat she is 'ugly fat' and 'smells bad', none of which are true, but she is super content. I pet her, and she snuggles into me. She wakes me up in the morning with meowing when I don't get up at 4:00 AM. I have a routine where we talk and meow back and forth. Sometimes it feels like a play session, where she attacks her string toy, and other times it's just a morning chat. I've taken photos of her after brushing, so she's extra fuzzy and adorable.
Understanding and Bonding
Regularly, I interact with my cats, not just verbally but also physically and mentally. They understand words, and my bunny, for instance, jumps around if I mention carrots. Both of these cats are more than just pets to me—they are family. They understand my words, and they communicate with me through meowing. When I talk to them, they meow back with varying lengths and tones. I spend about an hour a day talking to them, and they do the same in return. They meow at me when I'm cooking, protest when told to get down, and get upset if I don't want them with me when I'm doing laundry. It's a constant two-way conversation.
Connecting with a Cat as a Human Would
I talk to my cats as if they were humans. I confide in them about my personal issues and secrets. They listen and cuddle with me. When I come home, they are right there at the door, wanting to know more. When I leave, they want to come with me. They know that when they do well, they'll hear praise, and when they misbehave, they might hear a correction. These interactions are essential for bonding. They live for being told how smart, beautiful, and loved they are. Two of my cats, Majyk and his brother, know specific commands like 'walk', 'go with', and 'lunch'. Majyk especially loves praise, as he often says 'Good boy! You are so smart!' when given compliments.
More Than Just a Pet
Interactions with a cat can be even more meaningful than talking to a human. Cats can provide emotional support and companionship. They understand us in ways that often go beyond what words can express. The bond formed between a human and their cat can be incredibly strong, and regular interaction is key to maintaining that bond. Cats who know their names and commands feel like part of the family and enjoy the connection just as much as we do. So, if you're looking to bond with your cat, engage with them as often as you would a person. This will not only strengthen your relationship but also provide them with the emotional support they need.